IpSpw_¯IÀ¨bn Ccbm¡s¸Sp¶hÀ...
ØnXnhnhc¡W¡pIfpsS ASnØm\¯n Ip«n¡pähm fnIÄ hfsc IpdhmWv tIcf¯nÂ. ImcWw,
Ip«nIÄ¡mbn {]tXyI s]meokv hn`mKw \ap¡nsöXp Xs¶. apXnÀ¶hcpsS IpäIrXy §Ä
At\zjn¡p¶thfbntem \nb{´n¡p¶Xn\nSbntem hà Ip«n¡pähmfnIÄ DÄs¸«m AYhm Ahsc
Is¯nbm AhÀs¡Xntc \nba\S]SnIÄ kzoIcn¡pIsb¶ Hcp efnX ]²Xntb kwØm\¯v Ct¸mÄ
\nehnepÅq. AXn\nSbnÂ, Ip«nIsf Ccbm¡p¶ptm F¶Xt\zjn¡m³ Nnet¸msgms¡ s]meokv
Xmev]cyw ImWn¡mdpv F¶ kXyhpw AwKoIcn¡Ww. Pphss\Â PÌnkv (sIbÀ Bâv s{]m«Ivj³)
B^v NnÂ{U³ BÎvþ2000 [Ip«n\oXn (Ip«nIÄ¡v {i²bpw kwc£Whpw \ÂIÂ) \nbawþ2000] \S¸n h¶v Hcp ZiIw Ignªt¸mÄ CcIfm¡ s¸Sp¶
Ip«nIsf tXSn s]meokv \S¡p¶Xv hÃt¸mgpsams¡ ImWp¶papv. ho«ptPmen¡v \nÀ¯p¶
{]mbamIm¯ Ip«nIÄ, _me thebv¡v \ntbmKn¡s¸Sp¶ Ip«nIsfms¡ A¡q«cn hcpw.
F¶mÂ, IpSpw_¯IÀ¨bv¡ncbmhp¶ Ipªp§fpsS F®w A\pZn\w IqSn¡qSn hcnIbmWv.
amXm]nXm¡Ä X½nepÅ kzct¨À¨bnÃmbva Ipªp§sf hoSphnt«mSm³ t{]cn¸n¡p¶psh¶v ]T\
dnt¸mÀ«pIÄ Dv. ho«nÂ\n¶pw Hfnt¨mSp¶ B¬Ip«nIfn `qcn]£hpw A[nI\mÄ Ignbp¶Xn\p
ap¼v Xncn¨phcpsa¦nepw s]¬Ip«nIÄ amk§Ä¡p tijamWv Xncns¨¯pI. \mfnXphsc t]mb
s]¬Ip«nIfmcpw t]mb t]mse Xncn¨p h¶n«nsöXpw asämcp kXyw. s]®pw ]Whpw ]pkvXIhpw
t]mb t]mse Xncns¨ ¯nsö ]gsamgn F{Xtbm icnbmWv. IpSpw_¯IÀ¨bv¡v Ccbmhp¶
s]¬Ip«nIfn NneÀ thiymeb§fnepw thsc NneÀ AÚmXPU§fpsS Iq«¯nepw Is¶v hcmw.
IpSpw_¯IÀ¨bv¡v ]e ImcW§Ä DmImsa¦nepw `mcym`À¯m¡·mÀ X½nepÅ ]ckv]c “a\Ênem¡Â” (understanding) CÃmbvabmWv
apJyambhbn {][m\w F¶pw Is¯nbn«pv. ]ckv]cw a\Ênem¡m³ {ian¡m¯Xp aqeapÅ
sXän²mcWIÄ, kwib§Ä, {i²bnÃmbva, CutKm {]iv\§Ä, [mÀãyw, Al¦mcw, A]IÀjXmt_m[wþ
Chsbms¡ hnhml tamN\¯n\pw, thÀ]ncnªpÅ PohnX¯n\pw, InS¸papdn Dt]£n¡p¶Xnepw,
hoSphn«pt]mIp¶Xn\pw ImcWamIp¶psh¶pw ImWn¡p¶ ]T\§Ä At\Iapv. Atacn¡bnepw aäpw
\mw ]v tI«ncp¶ “understanding” Ipdhv Ct¸mÄ \½psS kwkvImc¯nepw F¯s¸«n«ntÃsb¶v Nn´n¡p¶hcpv. ImcWw?
\ap¡nSbn hnhmltamN\§Ä ANn´yamwhn[w s]cpIp¶p. ]Xn\mbnc¡ W¡n\v tIkpIfmWv hn[n Im¯v
InS¡p¶sX¶v ]dªm hnizkn¡m\mhptam? F¶mÂ, tIt«mfq. AXmWv kXyw. Xmeq¡pIÄ tXmdpw
IpSpw_tImSXn Øm]n¨n«pw {]iv\§Ä cq£ambn XpScp¶p. hnhmlw Ignªv Hcp hÀj¯n\nSbnÂ
t]mepw hnhmltamN\s¯¡pdn¨v Nn´n¡p¶ Z¼Xnamsc¡pdns¨´p ]dbm\mWv? C¯c¯nepÅ
IpSpw_¯IÀ¨bv¡ncbmIp¶Xv \½psS Ipªp§Ä Xs¶. AÑ\½amcpsS \nb{´WanÃmsX hfcp¶ Ipªp§Ä
IpäIrXy§fnte¡v hgpXn hogm\pÅ km[yX hfsc IqSpXemWv.
IpäIrXyimkv{X¯n IpSpw_§sf ]eXc¯n Xncn¡p¶pv. Disorganised family F¶v s]mXphmbn ]dbpsa¦nepw AXn\pÅn ImWp¶ hn`mK§Ä hnhn[Xcw CcIsf
krãn¡p¶p. Broken Home, Divorced,
Separated, Deserted parent, Unemployed or Under-employed parent, Over-crowded
family, Tension family, Poverty-striken family-A§s\
XcwXncn¨v Atacn¡bnepw bqtdm¸nepw \S¯nb ]T\§sfÃmw Xs¶ CcIsf krãn¡p¶hbmsW¶v ]dªp
Xcp¶p. AXpsImp Xs¶ hnÎntamfPn F¶ imkv{XimJbv¡v {]tXyI Xmev]cyapv. IpSpw_
_Ô§fnepmhp¶ XIÀ¨ AhcpsS Ipªp§sf am{Xaà _m[n¡p¶sX¶pw ]e IpSpw_§Ä IqSn DmIp¶
kaqlw Xs¶ XIÀ¶p t]mIpsa¶pw Is¯nbn«pv. IpSpw_w \¶mbm kaqlw \¶mbn; kaqlw
\¶mbm cmjv{Sw \¶mbn; cmjv{S§Ä \¶mbm temIw \¶mbn F¶v ]dbp¶Xn henb AÀ°apst¶mÀ¡pI.
tIcf¯n IpSpw_¯IÀ¨ DmIm\pÅ ImcW§Ä ]eXmWv. Ahbn NneXv: (1) aZy]m\w,
(2) hchdnbmsXbpÅ sNehv sN¿Â, (3) D]t`mIvXr kwkvImc¯nse BUw_c PohnXw, (4)
aqeyt_m[ XIÀ¨, (5) ]W¯nt\mSpÅ BÀ¯n, (6) hnhml PohnX¯nepÅ AhnlnXþclky ssewKnI
_Ô§Ä, (7) Cuizc hnizmk¡pdhv, (8) Z¼XnamcpsS IpSpw_§Ä X½nepÅ A´cw. A§s\
t\m¡nbmÂ, ]nt¶bpw hfsctbsd ImcW§Ä Is¯m\mhpw. C¶v cv hyànIÄ X½nepÅ hnhml
_Ô§Ä¡v IqSpX kzoIcyX ssIh¶n«pv. an{ihnhml§fpw [mcmfw. A\utZymKnI IW¡\pkcn¨v
tIcf¯nen¶v 10 e£¯ntesd an{ihnhmlnXcps¶mWv. AhÀ kt´mjt¯msS Pohn¡p¶psh¶v IcpXmw.
GXmbmepw, C¶v A´À kwØm\, A´mcmjv{S Xe¯nepÅ hnhml§Ä \S¡p¶pv. PmXntbm aXtam
k¼t¯m {]mtZinIXtbm kwkvImctam hnhml§Ä¡v XSÊamIp¶nÃ. ]s£, A¡q«cpsS hnhmlm\´c
PohnXhpw AhcpsS a¡fpsS `mhnbpw F§s\bmbncn¡psa¶ Bi¦ ]eÀ¡papv. Identities in marriagesþ AXmWv IpSpw_ PohnX¯n\pw `{ZXbv¡pw IqSpX A`nImaysa¶v hnizkn¨ncp¶hÀ
hbÊ·mcpw hbÊnIfpw Bbnt¸msb¶v tXm¶p¶p. C¶v, hnhmlsa¶Xv cv hyànIÄ X½nepÅ _Ôw
F¶Xnep]cn cv IpSpw_§Ä X½nepÅ _ÔpX F¶ Nn´mKXnbnÃmXmbncn¡p¶p. AXnsâ ^eambn cp
IpSpw_§fpsSbpw AhcpsS _Ôp¡fptSbpw Iq«mbvabptSbpw \nb{´Ww Z¼XnIÄ¡v taÂ
\ãs¸«ncn¡p¶p. Iq«pIpSpw_ PohnX¯n\pmb XIÀ¨ AWp IpSpw_w§sf krãns¨¶pw, A§s\
AWpIpSpw_§Ä s]cpInbtXmsS Z¼XnIsf \nb{´n¡m³ Xeaq¯hÀ CÃmsX h¶Xv IpSpw_ ¯IÀ¨bv¡v
ImcWamsb¶v IcpXp¶hcpv. GXmXpt]mse, cv IpSpw_§Ä X½nepÅ _ÔpXsb¶ Bib¯n\v XIÀ¨
h¶v cv hyànIÄ X½nepÅ _Ôw F¶ Xc¯n hnhmlw h¶Xv Xs¶ IpSpw_¯IÀ¨bv¡pw
CcbmIÂþCcbm¡Â ØnXn hntijXbv¡pw ImcWambn«ps¶v IcpXp¶hcpsS Iq«¯n Rm\pw
DÄs¸Sp¶p.
IpSpw_¯IÀ¨bpsS ^eambn kwØm\¯v BßlXyIÄ IqSp¶p; sIme]mXI§Ä hÀ²n¡p¶p;
hr²P\§sf AhKWn ¡p¶p; hnhmlPohnX¯n\pÅnencp¶p ]ckv{Xo/]c]pcpj ssewKn I_Ôw
Øm]n¡p¶p; aZy]m\w Gdp¶p; ]eXcw IpäIrXy§Ä¡v tlXphmIp¶p; a\:Êam[m\w Ifbp¶p;
taml`wKhpw \ncmibpw Dm¡p¶p. Npcp¡¯n CcIfpsS F®w IqSp¶pþ AhcpsS PohnXw
ZpÊlambn amdp¶p.
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